Sunday, April 09, 2006

serious question to girls: is this sweet?

so i have a very serious question. if a guy did these things to you, do you think it's sweet or is it just too cheezy? girls please respond i want to know if this is true or not, i'll take notes; i want to be a sweet guy, sweeter than kelantanese kuih-muih and sweets!

[She won't trust you if you do & it'll be awkward]

2. Grab her hand when you walk next to each other.
[She always gets butterflies when you do it; it makes her feel like you want her]

3. When standing, wrap your arms around her.
[It makes her feel like you really love her.]

4. Cuddle with her.
[She'll feel like your there for her]

5. Hug her from behind
[It makes her feel special]

6. Write little notes.
[She smiles. They're cute; The end]

7. Compliment her Honestly.
[No girl likes a liar and no girl likes a person who lies about it when you compliment her]

8. When you hug her, hold her in your arms as long as possible.
[It makes her feel wanted]

9. Be super sweet to her.
[All girls like a super sweet guy]

10. Call her at night to wish her sweet dreams.
[She'll go to bed with a smile]

11. Comfort her when she cries.
[She'll feel like you'll ALWAYS be there for her]

12.Wipe away her tears
[It'll show you'll always be there]

13. Love her with all your heart.
[Not with your brain... or your dick]

14. Pick her up and flirt with her (she'll scream and say put me down but really she loves it).
[It's true boys!]

15. Be a gentleman (hold the door for her).
[Every girl loves a guy who is a gentleman]

16. DON'T let your friends talk trash about her, it'll get back 2 her
[& it'll make her feel like you aren't really there for her]

17. Take her for a long walk at night!
[She just wants to be alone. & that's not always bad. The world can be annoying sometimes & you just need to be alone.]

18. When it's cold outside hold her close
[You want her to be happy & she's happy in your arms]

19. Draw on or rub her back as she is tryin to rest or sleep
[This just feels good HAHA!] {not with a pen you idiot, with your finger}

Girls - repost this if you think it's sweet


  1. Anonymous1:05 PM

    evrythin here is soo sweet! if u're the type dat wants to be a total sweet n romantic guy, u'd better remember to do all these things! oh, bout no.16, wen ur friends do talk trash bout her, at least defend her n make sure she knows u did. dat way, not only would she know u love her the way she is, she'd also aknowledge u as her HERO!
    oh, another thing..if u do really love dat someone very much, accept her for who she is. changing someone to match wut u like(for eg: askin her to change the way she dress or the way she make-ups) wont really help strengthen ur relationship, might even make iut worse! just a few tips for ya! hope u find ur special someone to do alllll those sweet things!

  2. of course la its very very sweet...tapi dont touch a girl too much without approval..there is a line between being sweet and plain pervert kayh..

  3. i knew it! these things ARE freaking sweet! thanks for the advice, i'm taking notes hehe. but unfortunately, i don't have a girl right now. i don't even have a girl that i like and want to be with. i would love to have a special girl but i just couldn't find one. yeah my life is quite boring but that doesn't really bother me. maybe that's why i don't have a girl......

  4. Anonymous10:16 PM

    assalammualaikum... boleh yek tinggal komen skit... no offence.. but bagi aku kalau couple better jgn melampaui batas... for me pegang² b4 the time is not suitable... by the way we want a relationship that di redhai allah kan? better do what the article say after marriage.. n b4 that just be understanding n caring... that in my opinion is enough...wallahualam

  5. alhamdulillah ada jugak org yg prihatin. aku kadang2 lupa. nasib baik aku takde awek lagi hehehe. terima kasih atas nasihat yg ikhlas tu, keep 'em coming. tapi aku pelik jugak tgk gamba2 memba2 aku yg bercouple kat frienster. nak jadi sweet takpe beb asalkan jgn melampaui batas.

  6. 7, 11, 13 and 16 are just....compulsory if you're her boyfriend and if you don't do that, it's just WRONG! LOL

    Number 2-6, 8, 16, 18 and 19 are purely physical. In my opinion those aren't really 'sweet' gestures. Physical gestures pun have to be careful - too much of it, you risk being suffocating.

    Sweet gestures don't have to be physical. Think spontaneity, unexpectedness and randomness =D. Do things that she won't expect, that will make her go "Oh! :D". Give her flowers for no reason or occasion, just because you feel like it :D. Put in extra effort in doing things for her cos you want the best (e.g. not just some flowers, but, say, you'd drive all the way to the other side of the state just because that's the only place to get her favorite flowers). Randomly tell her that she's beautiful. Spend half a day learning how to cook porridge cos you wanna make some for her cos she's sick. Any action or gesture that shows her honestly how you feel about her! Number 6 can be considered sweet :D.

    Number 14 is cute! But not really a 'sweet' gesture as well.

    Sorry la, cakap banyak XD. I'm a romantic, so don't get me started on this stuff XD. You don't have to do all of those to be sweet of course...but I hope you get what I mean! Good luck!


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